What seems like many years ago a friend told me about the book, He’s Just Not that Into You. We talked about the premise of it but I didn’t read it at the time. When I heard that it was made into a major motion picture I decided to order a copy through the library. I mean, seriously, how many self-help books are actually made into movies?
Although I can’t relate to many of the dating scenarios described, I can relate to the essence of the message because I’ve seen so many women make the mistakes described in the book. And I know from personal experience that when a man really likes you, he pursues you and there is no doubt about it.
Women tend to take the mixed messages that men send them and overanalyze them, convincing themselves that there are numerous complicated reasons why a guy is not asking them out. No one likes to admit that maybe the answer is simple—he’s just not that into you and you need to move on with your life.
It’s a hard truth but one that would save so much heartache and time. I’m glad I picked up this book and finally read it. Now I just need to watch the movie, right?